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kisah berantai

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kisah #1
dlm 2 minggu lepas,sdg dlm pjlnn pulg dr klcc ke mmc.ada urusan di klcc.cuaca separa panas.hari sudah hampir tengahari.lalu di dpn corus hotel apabila seorang lelaki dlm lingkungan umur 30-an menyapa,

lelaki : adik,nk mintak tolong boleh?
me : ye?
lelaki : adik blh pinjmkan abg duit?abg nk balik tanjung malim tp takde duit ni..
me : emm..(smbil memandang sweater beliau..oo..upsi..)..berapa ye lbh kurang?
lelaki : tak kesah la dik.abg ada mintak dgn org lain td tapi sume org maki2..
ms tu dlm hati rs bcampur2..takut dia tipu la,kut la die org jahat la..but..
me : (keluarkan dompet dan mencongak2 RM di dlm.ade la rm20+).em..rm10 boleh?
lelaki : boleh2.time kasih sgt dik…(tersenyum)
me : sama2…

kmudian kami bdua blalu ke arah yg berbeza.sekali sekala aku menoleh ke blkg.khuatir die sbnrnye mengekori aku.tetapi tidak.ya,mungkin die mmg btul2 memerlukan duit itu.insha allah

kisah #2
seminggu slps kisah #1.kebiasaannya aku akan pulang dgn mngambil lrt di stesen ampang park->sentral dan ambil komuter dr sentral->shah alam.dr situ, abah akan fetch balik rumah.kdg2 abh akan amik kat stesen universiti,atau kg baru,bergantung di mana yg lebih praktikal utk fetch aku.tp hari tersebut berbeza.dlm komuter,dlm pukul 6.15pm,aku terima sms dr abah,

“k lang dah kat mane?hari ni abh amik k ngah dan athif kat hosp.nk abh amik kat mane?”

aku,
“k lang br je naik tren dr sentral.its ok.takyah amik k lang.tq”

sjk ada kredit kad,aku mmg jarang bw cash yg byk.gedik naik tren pun pakai touchNgo.ok ok..bebalik pd cite,aku bkire2 la cukup tak duit nk byr tmbg taxi.stesen shah alam->rumah biasanya rm5.tak kurg,tak lebih.mmg duit dlm dompet tak cukup.ada 3 helai rm1 shj.aku teroka seluruh pelusuk beg galas aku.ada jmp beberapa sen.mmg beg aku sngaje disepahkan dgn duit.hrp maklum.penting utk waktu2 sebegini.tp takkan nk kire skrg kut,detik hatiku.so,setibanya di shah alam,org ramai berpusu2 ke taxi hub.sbb kt stesen ni mmg xde pkhidmatan bas.aku bdiri di satu sudut.ye,pandai pun teka.aku kira syiling.kira punya kira,ada rm4.80.hmm.xpe,aku nekad nk naik teksi.mesti.dlm teksi,aku teroka lagi dlm beg.alhamdulillah,lg 5 minit nk smpi rumah,aku jumpe 20sen di suatu ceruk beg.maka aku pun byrlah pakcik teksi tu dgn ktoing2 nye syiling.ehe.x malu punn…

kisah #3
beberapa hari selepas kisah #2.hari tu abh balik lewat.so bajet mak ada kat rumah.tren smpi kat subang jaya, aku msg mak,

“mak ada usrah hari ni?k lang sampai lg 10 minit”

mak, “a’ah ada usrah.sorry..”

so,kena naik teksi balik rumah.so operasi meneroka spt kisah #2 bjalan spt biasa.kali ni lbh parah sbb kbykn duit telah diteroka semasa kisah #2 mybbkan tdk byk syiling yg tinggal di dlm beg tsebut.ms tu muka cuak tak ingt la.sbb tak kan nak balik jln kaki kan.kira punye kira,tak cukup rm1!kali ni mmg konfem sbb stiap ceruk beg mmg dah clear dah.ehe.toing!yey dpt satu idea!dial umah,af,my youngest bro angkat fon,

af : helo..
me : helo af,k lang sampai rumah lg 15minit,tlg tunggu kat depan rumah dgn rm1 ke rm2 ke sbb k lang tak cukup duit nak byr pakcik taxi (satu nafas ok.tiada noktah mahupun koma)
af : ok

pastu mmg nekad trus masuk teksi.dgn harapan adik aku akan terpacak kat pintu gate umah nnt.dlm pjalanan tu,aku bukak purse.mmg sgt tkejut oke sbb rupenye ada xtra rm1!!mase tu mmg rs syukur sgt2..rs mcm Allah nak tolong sgt time tuh..dah la tu,pakcik taxi hntr aku dulu drp 3 pnumpang yg lain.dgn sampai awal dr biasa dan duit tmbg yg cukup2,aku rs amaze dgn apa yg terjadi.kuasa Dia..fyi,lps byr tu aku ada lbh kurg 3 sen je dlm purse.serius.

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soalan : apekah kaitan antara ketiga2 kisah tersebut?

sekian,terima kasih

books!!yummy

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yesterday i manage to get myself 2 books. i couldnt find one more book on the shelf. probably it is out of stock. even the other 2 was the final copy lest.wuhuu

so here are the books;

1. my reality check bounced by jason ryan dorsey – read my 23rd march entry

2. girl,get your money straight! by glinda bridgforth – i get to know this book thru oprah.com , her book club.

and here is the sneak review on the book;
“If you’re tired of feeling powerless over your finances and are ready to start funding your dreams, then come on girl–it’s time to get your money straight! Author and financial expert Glinda Bridgforth knows that healthy money management is rarely just about dollars–it’s about getting to the root of why we spend what we do and recognizing the emotional and cultural issues that play out in our unhealthy financial habits. Girl, Get Your Money Straight! presents her seven-step program for holistic financial healing–an upbeat, empowering road map that you can use to identify your heart’s desires, break away from negative spending patterns, pay off outstanding debts, develop a spending plan, conquer the checkbook blues, and create new wealth. Filled with Bridgforth’s warmhearted wisdom and advice, and complete with worksheets exercises, affirmations, and inspiring stories of African American women who have found financial peace of mind, Girl, Get Your Money Straight! is a fresh, fun, and eminently practical guide to healing your bank account and building a life that you love.”

i already started to read the first book.n it definitely not indah khabar dr rupa.sgt best ok..

i’m off to course at tganu this sunday-thursday..will try to finish both books and continue my crossstitching project.hehe

k ppl.tata

self motivation

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Came across this book just now.thru yahoo page.i read the 1st chapter.interesting.ok la regardless of the author-mat saleh.but still the book is quite interesting.mmg ade part tu mcm lbh kpd cara hidup mat saleh.tp abaikan yg tu.amik yg ada kaitan je.hmm

I love the part when he said,

“Waiting for any other time, especially the right time, to make your break for your dreams just wastes irreplaceable opportunities.You end up sitting on your dreams while your fears and insecurities take the lead. You continue getting older and more frustrated but not an inch closer to what will bring more meaning and satisfaction to your life, yet it’s entirely your choice—even if you decide to ignore the fact that you choose the life you lead.”

and this part,

“How can doing everything right end up feeling wrong?”

the rest u can find in the book itself.rs mcm nak bli buku ni.ingt nak cr this weekend kat mph sales.

berikut adalah yg dpt sy simpulkan hasil drp bacaan chapter 1 tersebut,

1. stop being a mediocre
2. add the spices in ur life by doing things other than ur daily routine, something that can change the world(wow!)eg start with visiting the orphans?
3. do whatever u feel like doing n stop doing something that u dun feel like doing.well as long as the thing is good lah.kalau mlanggar bts agama jgn la kan.

well cant wait to read the book myself!=)

k pen off.tata

babbles

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“Kausar…ni nak habaq sikit…Kak Norizam awak tu..still Cik lagi lah…single mingle macam you juga !! tak pasal2 dah dapat title pulak..next time pakai ‘Cik’ okay… “

dpt emel ni fr pn zaine elect mmc a few days back.

ehem..sgt malu ok.saya telah hantar agak byk email kpd kak norizam tp terpanggil beliau ‘puan’.dah la saya men’cc kpd ramai org.isk.kesian kat die.kesian kat saya juge.hehe*malu*

lately mcm xde idea nk memblog.mcm2 jadik tp kdg2 tlalu personal utk diceritakan di sini.saya ada pdpt : seseorg tak sepatutnye menjadikan blog beliau terlalu peribadi.eg hbgn dgn family,gaduh dgn kwn etc.yep,mmgla ini blog awk.tp cmane kalau satu hari org yg dperkatakan tu tau kewujudan blog ni?x ke parah.lps tu dah elok2 pun blh gaduh balik.btul tak?

save all the personal thingy tu in ur diary k.coz the diary is meant to be CONFIDENTIAL..ok?no?

k tata

my SUPERB list

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this morning en bakar showed me+colleagues (3 of us) a list of names(DD) who’ll probably get 2 for PPA.well the managers have to fight for em first.yea,yea,true.my name was not listed.hehe.strive harder!
yet,find myself envying some of my frens(dun want to reveal d names here) who are really cool n happening frens,live life,but at the same time maintaining their performance for the sake of the organization.ok ok am exagerating.but hey..they deserve it anyway..at least ade seseorang yg bulih saya mengepau nnt.kiki

then half an hour after that, am thinking of listing up my dreams. maksud saya,impian yg memerlukan $$ yg sgt bykk n dah kena mula untuk mengumpul duit tersebut.huhu.here goes the list;

1)get myself a car

2)get married and have kids

3)buy my own house

4)pursue masters degree or get a 2nd degree

5)have my own business/be a franchisee

6)perform haj (with future husband?) – by 2017 inshaallah

i noe its not impossible to achieve those ‘dreams’.well if we dont dream then how can we set the target and strive towards those.am i right or am i right.hehe.but all in all, its how you achieve it not how u dream it.dreams will be dreams.nothing certain about dreams.unless u put urself 200% effort to achieve it.then the dreams can transform into something supercool called reality(yummy!)..

but always remember, effort is one thing.manage ur savings and time is another thing.n plus,to get a balance life altogether is one challenge.eg run business,daily office work,kids,hubby,classes,assignments,outstations,meetings etc etc.then u hav to balance ur life with ur hablumminaLLah..eg usrah,tafsir,katibah,iftar etc.no matter how high u r even on top of the world,nvr forget our Creator.always find way to improve our relation with Him.InshaAllah.so there u go ppl..

hmm..must start thinking of how to manage all those agendas in life.yup!

well it mite looks ridiculous super berangan n stuff.but well its my dreams not yours.haha.either way its the innerself that drives you.the courage,the hopes,the strengths,the etc..

just now one of my colleague asked en bakar on his opinion if he were to pursue his study in MD petroleum engineering,sponsored by pet. he’s currently with mech dept,surface.he wish to join the subsurface team.here are his reasonings[adekepekataanni];

1. most of high achievers/flyers eg MDCEO,VP are from subsurface background
2. they make more money[haha of cos]
3. petroleum is pet’s core business
4. their supercool job ie dealing with wells,driller,reservoirs etc.so cool ok.this is the time when en bakar told us on how cool their PPA were.he attend the persidangan manager2 the day before.the subsurface manager was defending his staff,”she managed to drill 3 wells.not 2 but 3.she deserves to get 1″ tho he fought her for 2.OMG.masa tu saya mmg rase di bawah tersgtla kerana mereka org2 laut ini sgt cool.en bakar tried to compare with electrical,what is the impact of eg purchasing gensets to the organization (tho there is!wp tidak dgn mata kasar) compared to the impact of drilling wells!helo mmg la efek kat keuntungan kompeni ok.tp kalau takde genset camane itu driller mau operate.takkan well tu mcm tetibe tumbuh dgn jayanye.ayo.sori emo emo.hehe

but thats not my point.what i want to highlight here is what en bakar’s advice after my colleague present his ‘case’ just now.my colleague is just one yr with pet btw.still new.en bakar said,”treasure what u have.learn as much of u can.make urself marketable to the industry.be proactive.stop thinking of other ppl’s oppurtunity.think about developing ownself rather than thinking other’s rezeki.keep on complaining and keep on planning to skip between companies wont make u any good”

thats a norm.u will always envy what other ppl’s have.hmm.well…no comment..eh yg komen pjg2 kat ats tu apekejadah.heeeee;p
papepun,sumthing for us to sit n ponder.kan?

k la.pen off.bui2

autisme n tech allowance<-sgt xde kne mngene

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last 2 days i came across an article in StarTwo.the article was basically on a father, who gave up his work just to take care of his autisme daughter.thus, he is now a so-called ‘househusband’.of course lah they just replace the word ‘wife’ with ‘husband’ then voila, it defines hubby staying at home n do housework.

but here am not trying to lecture about the househusband term blablabla.but from the moment i read the article, am eager to know more on ‘autisme’. yelah, since the daddy very like nekad to quit his job just to give a 110% attention on his daughter whose autistic.hmm

yesterday i was having a conv with my mum when suddenly this topic came up.she told me from what she understood lah but the rest she asked me to google up—>ade ke such term.haha.so here are my google results,

“Autistic spectrum disorders are complex developmental disorders, which include autism, Asperger’s syndrome, childhood disintegrative disorder (CDD), Rett syndrome and pervasive developmental disorder (PDD) not otherwise specified. All of these disorders involve problems with:

– Social interactions
– Verbal and nonverbal communication
– Repetitive behaviors or interests

These disorders are known as spectrum disorders because the signs and symptoms of each can appear in different combinations and in varying degrees of severity. Two children with the same diagnosis may share certain patterns of behavior but can exhibit a wide range of skills and abilities.

A child with an autistic spectrum disorder may develop normally for the first few months or years of life, then become less responsive to other people. These disorders can often be reliably detected by the age of 3 years, and in some cases as early as 18 months. Still, it’s estimated that only 50 percent of children with autistic spectrum disorders are diagnosed before kindergarten. Delayed speech is one common indicator of such a disorder. However, it’s important to note that not all children with delayed speech have an autistic spectrum disorder.”

ooo i seeee…n my mum oso said that this is not a penyakit but its more like a syndrom.no such word as cure.the parents have to learn how to deal with their autistic child.and of cos,patience is an important element.hmm.dats y kita kne salu doa cemni, “ya allah..kurniakanlah diriku zuriat yag soleh,sihat dan sempurna.amiin”yela,kdg2 baby tu lahir nmpk sempurna je,tp bile die membesar, wallahua’lam..so kne oways bdoa wp baby da lahir.ye kan?

very enlighting.ecece

k dats all..

oh twit2,just get this news – there wont be tech allowance for those with less than 3yrs service..hmm xmo bg xpela..

mari menangis hwaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAaAAAA~

yela2 buruks.i noe.tata

pheww!

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what a day!pheew

minor accident
yups.not cool ok.but nway my dad’s driving.was only the co-pilot.this morning, on the way to asia jaya station.this one car, chinese driver, drove so da*n fast, n its so happen that my dad doesnt like this kind of driver.so he sorta blocked his way n bam!the car’s side mirror hit my dad’s bonet.it was like tergesel.then he pulled over to the side of the road n came to our car then my dad copied his car’s reg no.he knocked my dad’s mirror n here goes the conv;

en cina : how u drive huh?
dad : n how u drive?
en cina : u blocked my way.u’re suppose to give way
dad : why u drive like that.speeding bla bla bla
en cina : so u’re taking my car reg no.i already take urs.in case i see any report on this, u know what i’ll do.i have link with jpj.drive carefully nxt time
dad : u too

n then this guy went back to his car.actually my dad wasnt satisfied.

hmm.till now am not sure whose fault was that.maybe we malaysian shud be more compromise when it comes to the road safety.its the life we’re talking about.ingatlah org yang tersayang.not only can cause u accident but heart attack as well<–if u gather all these small2 accident+smallfight+iwillmakepolicereport thingy, it sure can cause u hypertension.i always worried with my dad’s health.he likes to creates thing that can lead to his hypertension…abah..abah..hmm
nway luckily no one gets hurt.takut gak ade btumbuk ke hape..hiyee..sgt takot.in wrap,not a good thing to start a day..=(

EIT
HSE PCSB organized this free test annually.for this yr,05-06 march.the best part is-free of charge!if u were to take the test,it cost around rm100.save rm100 there.huhu.well,i had it just now.alhamdulillah..all okay.siap dah nazar nak pose 5hari tuh kalau all ok.well after all..HE knows BEST.we should be thankful of our good health given by Him.i heard someone said – money cannot buy health.yea.so true.

“ya allah..Kau kurniakan la diriku kesihatan yang baik, umur yang panjang dan hidup yang bermanfaat.ameen”

k tata for now

$$ is everything??

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i loooove to observe ppl.i even wish to hav a master in psychology cuz am good at observing ppl behaviour, analyze…

so currently i’ve been observing on ppl’s behaviour on money. so far,i mean,generally there are 3 types of ppl in this world(at least in malaysia):

1. person who have lots(read: A LOT!) of money n dun bother spending it
comment:person who fall in category 1 are basically who come from a very rich family n more or less a spoilt child.not to say that they are spoilt ppl.but honestly i think that they are BEING spoilt by the way they been bred.not to blame the parents who have loads of money but blaming them for raising their children in a luxury way. i came acrossed a blog, so called shopaholic’s blog.she has a set of sisters n they love shopping.they can shop like almost everyday n spent almost thousands per day!they splurge on branded stuff n even go shopping overseas eg paris!!just imagine.handbags,makeups,shoes,blouses etc etc.am not sure of her family background but they sure orang kaya tak hengat.but i love to read their blogs.yela sendri tak mampu nk jd cemtu.ehee

2. person who (actually) have more than enough money for living but still keep on complaining
eg comparing with other ppl wages/salary tho he doesnt deserve that much of salary.uh huh
comment:majority of the ppl that i observe fall in this category.impressive?no?

3. person who have enough money for living and always grateful of what he has
comment:and there goes the minority. i wish to meet this group of ppl.how they manage to be satisfied with what they have as other ppl dont.yes money is not everything

so in which category i fall into?hmm..i dunno myself sbb i observe ppl je.heh

what matters most is how u manage the money.regardless whether u earn so much or so less, u r what u buy.just make as a habit-to at least save 10% of ur mthly income,put it in ur saving account so that u wont feel tempted with the $$ n plus, u can get year end dividend!well after all, human wont ever feel satisfied.when they have a lot, they want more.so just put a limit n be realistic!

n theres one ustaz said,”peruntukkan sekurg2nye 10% drp pdptn kita utk bersedekah/membantu org lain.inshaAllah kita takkan miskin selama2nya”..cool kan?

nowadays ppl dun buy the “money is not everything” quote as every single thing needs $$.even nak pi toilet kat kdai mamak pun dah kne byr.klaka x.oh ya btw toilet kat klcc is RM2 per entry…i wonder how does the toilet looks like.sure air paip dr evian.hmm..hence the quote shud be,”everything is money” lah..kan?

in a nutshell, manage ur $$, do a lot of saving as possible n on top of all,be thankful of what u have

pen off.tata

p/s:been thinking of having a new hobby, knitting!!hav to shop for the benangs n all…cant wait